4 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lying When Chatting(2go, Facebook etc...)

  

1.    One very effective way of finding out if a person is lying would be to ask the person very pointed questions about the area of interest. If the person fumbles or gives vague answers then you do not have to waste your time on such a person.

2.   Another thing that you could do is that from the moment you first make contact, jot down whatever details the person chooses to reveal to you and in subsequent encounters nonchalantly question the person about the details, if there is a contradiction in the two details then you can be as sure as pat that the person is lying.

3.   Ask the person seemingly general questions but which in fact should have a very definite purpose, for example ask the person what he or she is looking for in such a relationship. Note down the answer. After two or three encounters again repeat the question and see whether the two answers match.

4.   You could try pretending that you have chatted with the person before and innocently ask the person if he or she is such and such person (make something up) and try offering compliments to the person like, “I really enjoyed chatting with you the other day. You were perfectly charming…” and so on. If the person falls for cheap flattery like this, then obviously he or she makes it a hobby to chat with people under various identities.       

And so the chatting goes on until the person really grows on you. When you feel that you can really trust the person, you may try giving the person your telephone number. Remember that this too is a giant leap towards building a relationship so it’s better that you be sure than sorry.

        The safest thing you can do about telephone numbers is to mutually exchange it preferably at the same time, so that neither party is at a disadvantage. It’s really no big deal, you can afford to tell the person that you are just being wary, the person will understand. If he or she does not, then there is a good chance that he or she will not understand a lot of other things as well. In that case, dump the person.

ROMANCE FUNDAMENTALS -- PRIMARY FLIRTING

It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting.  What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play?  To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive.  Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!

            Flirting is a frame of mind:

            Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks.

            Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!

            Start a sexy conversation:

            Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello.

            Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.

            Enjoy yourself and have fun:

            Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous.

            Show that you can be vulnerable.

            Make good use of all props:

            Always use a prop.

Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you.

Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports team’s emblem, an interesting book or magazine.

            Play host:

            Take the lead by taking on the role of host.

            Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.

            Introduce yourself first:      

            Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!

            Listen-up:

Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your partner will be drawn to you.

            Make bold eye contact:

Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then look away. You don’t want to stare!

            Pay a genuine compliment:

            Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more.

           

Show a beautiful smile:

You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile.

So there you go!  These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance.  We must always be mindful of the fundamentals. 

When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off.  Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.

Note: if this doesn’t work for you then you might want to drop a comment on what went wrong.