LET GO OF THE PAST AND TAKE A REBOUND..

Three weeks after you broke up with your spouse, you meet this awesome, funny and not bad looking person and you decide to move on and maybe start something. Now, the question is, it is just three weeks, is it maybe too soon to move on?
Your friends and loved ones are telling you it just might be and you are not exactly sure of your feelings at the moment, so what then is it? We’ve seen celebrities move on pretty fast after a well-publicized relationship and as much as we do not have lots of those here in Nigeria, it is a norm in Hollywood.
Brad Pitt hooked up with Angelina Jolie just shortly after his marriage with Jennifer Aniston ended and years later, he is still with Jolie, both of them raising a football team together *lol*. We have seen some of them move on fast and had the relationship crashing like a pack of cards and we have also seen some growing stronger.
So it brings us to the question, when exactly is the right time. This answer just might help. When you are in love with someone, you do not want your relationship to end, you give it your all and protect it with everything you have but sometimes things do not go as we plan.
Relationships sometimes end. Now whether you are the “dumper” or the “dumpee” the fact that you have put your feelings and energy into the relationship means it would hurt you no matter how hard you try to resist, if not a lot, at least a bit. If it does hurt, you would need a little time or in some cases, more than a little time to get over that relationship which brings us to this, maybe you should just stay alone for a while. Feelings don’t just disappear overnight, especially since they weren’t developed overnight, so how about you spread your wings, exhale and live life alone for a while? Yes rebound might help but it also gets messy sometimes, so stay off it and enjoy life. And if just shortly after your relationship, you are sure this new person is the one, then still breathe. Yes, enjoy your “me time”, hang out with friends, be among your family and loved ones and love life. If the person is the one, then the person won’t disappear until you are fit enough to be with them. I mean, who wants to be with someone who is carrying baggage from his/her previous relationship anyway?
So breathe and remove every emotional baggage you might still be carrying from your previous relationship so that when you move on, it would be fresh, new and so clean.

::: You may want to see :-

• HOW TO KNOW A MAN IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU

• HOW TO RECOGNIZE WARNING SIGNS OF A BREAKUP 

• HOW TO WIN LOVE BACK

If He Exhibits These Signs In Bed, Then He Is A Guy I Think You Should Keep.

Its time to identify that one you should keep. Oh yes we are all so kind. You met him, he’s a great listener, keeps good conversation, laughs at the right jokes, no dull moments, is a real gentleman and he is greatly romantic. But for him to get an A(distinction), he has to pass excellently well in bedmatics. Now how can you tell from your first encounter that he is someone you don't want to let go?
Lets roll;

1. Pace not race: he has barely kissed your forehead nor neck or even gotten you ready and now he’s aiming for the pack of condom and getting ready to ease into you and you begin to wonder, has the foreplay even startedyet? If it is your first time doing it and he is like this, then maybe he wants the body(booty) more than he wants you. If he won’t take his time to please you but would rather rush through it just for his own pleasure then woman, he is not a Man you ought to keep. You could call him for sex once a while maybe.

2. Does he kiss well: as old fashioned and boring as kissing may sound, it is the gateway to the “kingdom”. A man who doesn’t bother to kiss you but instead head straight for your buttons while looking for the fastest means to stick his thing(cock) into you is one you shouldn’t be keeping or seeing. Ditch him.

3. Does he listen: he should be able to take his time to please you, while you have your foreplay, he shouldn’t just eat away your vagina like orange or watermelon, he should ask you gently if you like it, watch your reaction as he gently pleases you to know how his moves are making you feel. Your response should determine whether he goes on or not. If he does this, then you should be considering keeping him.

4. Ladies first: even in the bedroom and under the sheets while you guys are naked, yes. He shouldn’t just push your head down and demand for a ''blow-job'', that’ll only be acceptable if he picked you off the road or wherever for a sum.
When he makes love to you, he should take the lead, pleasure you and guide you to reciprocate. We are talking about the first time here ladies! That guy has got to work!

5. And after the party: what happens after the “show”? does he grab his phone, make a phone call, while he walks into the bathroom to freshen up? or does he back you, remove the condom and falls into a deep sleep while he snores like a lion? If this is his immediate reaction, then you know your answer. (RUN AWAY AND DON'T LOOK BACK)