NEED SOMEHELP ON A MATTER OF TRUST FOR MY NEW GIRLFRIEND.

Hello reader, this post was made to help a friend who a has a problem with his new relationship please we do hope you drop a helpful comment for him.

I've been seeing this girl in my neighborhood for about 2/3 months. But we made it exclusive and 'official' a few days ago.

Here's my problem, when I first started  seeing her, someone close to me, told me to never go out with her, that she'd do something to hurt me and it wouldn't be worth it, although they don't even know her that well at all so I have 'slightly' ignored that.

She's going out with her friends at the weekend, and said to me that she's going to "get drunk and do something stupid"', Obviously by this she means a stupid action of some kind and not something to do with a guy.

But why would you tell your partner you're going to do something stupid, I never would. I’m as loyal as they come, but I don't think loyalty even came into her mind when she said it, she doesn't understand the statement like I have.

So yeah, I can safely say right now, I don't have all the trust for her that I should have, I had nothing but trust for my EX. But this is different and makes me feel so insecure and paranoid about stuff, and makes me feel down to be honest.

Do I talk to her about it? Have I made the wrong move committing a relationship with her?

Please he needs your advice on this matter. What do you think he should do???..

You can appear anonymous if you want to.

WHY ARE SO MANY WOMEN SUDDENLY BI-SEXUAL?

We've heard different opinions from people, 'because it's seen as cool and guys like it', two 'because they are more free to be honest about their sexuality...'

The truth may be somewhere in between, I think its definitely is a socio-cultural phenomenon, because like lets say 15 years ago it was quite a stigma to say you were bisexual or a lesbian. Then suddenly, from the early 00s I suddenly heard a lot of talk about threesomes, 'experimenting with the same sex' and things like that. I honestly think a lot of women are kind of encouraged to go that way, it's like we may all have the seed of potential, but it's watered by our environment. I actually think pornography has a lot to do in it because like, at least 30% of internet porn seems to be lesbian(girl on girl). Women are also conditioned to see females as the more 'sexy' or desirable gender because of the male dominated viewpoint of sexuality.

 I think it's true that women's sexuality is fluid but that of men is probably more fluid than they think. The strength of the stigma is so strong, it kind of drowns everything out. If more women than men are bisexual why has bisexuality seemed to be more common in men in history? I don't think social pressures are the reason because if anything male homosexuality has been stigmatized more than female.

For a while I admit that I had a friend who has this lesbian porn addiction but she's kind of getting over that a bit. This may sound ridiculous, but it

almost seems some women would rather date a really attractive woman rather than an unattractive man? I'd imagine that would feel quite emasculating for some. Do you think that would be common or is it my mere imagination?

''Feminism encourages women to be with other women so they can supposedly 'know their own bodies better' as if they don't already have access to them 24/7'', LOL..

I'm not actually going on a crusade against it, its just that I admit: yes, after watching enough lesbian porn and waking up to the fact I was getting no 'action' because I was the loser who stayed home and watched this **** while at the same time I wasn't getting any dates twisted with my mind), it just seems that the society has made a real fetish over it, it's like in your face with all these celebrities suddenly 'coming out.' with such acts.

Someone said something that sounded quite ridiculous, that men have more 'competition' for hot women from other women, lmao.

Even 10 years ago true bisexuality seemed rare now suddenly 'enlightened' women are just getting in touch with their sexuality. I don't want to degrade lesbians but it seems more like not caring about the gender and doing it out of erotic pleasure, like a kind of mutual masturbation.

Maybe we're not really all bi, but simply do you have the capacity to gain erotic pleasure from both genders?... 

Lets hear your say in this matter.

DON'T TRUST THE GIRL TO BUY THE CONDOMS!!!

I came back from a wedding ceremony on the 7th of July a ceremony i went with a few of my friends. Somehow the subject came up and one of my guy(friend) said that he would never trust a girl to get the condoms because what if she poked a hole in them on purpose. To me he just sounded paranoid, but then again I've never had a pregnancy scare.

I'm just curious, For the guys, do you think that happens or maybe it has happened?

And For the ladies(you can appear as anonymous if you want to), have you ever thought of doing that?