We've heard different opinions
from people, 'because it's seen as cool and guys like it', two 'because they
are more free to be honest about their sexuality...'
The truth may be somewhere in between, I think its definitely
is a socio-cultural phenomenon, because like lets say 15 years ago it was quite
a stigma to say you were bisexual or a lesbian. Then suddenly, from the early
00s I suddenly heard a lot of talk about threesomes, 'experimenting with the
same sex' and things like that. I honestly think a lot of women are kind of
encouraged to go that way, it's like we may all have the seed of potential, but
it's watered by our environment. I actually think pornography has a lot to do
in it because like, at least 30% of internet porn seems to be lesbian(girl on
girl). Women are also conditioned to see females as the more 'sexy' or desirable
gender because of the male dominated viewpoint of sexuality.
I think it's true that women's sexuality is
fluid but that of men is probably more fluid than they think. The strength of
the stigma is so strong, it kind of drowns everything out. If more women than
men are bisexual why has bisexuality seemed to be more common in men in
history? I don't think social pressures are the reason because if anything male
homosexuality has been stigmatized more than female.
For a while I admit that I had a
friend who has this lesbian porn addiction but she's kind of getting over that
a bit. This may sound ridiculous, but it
almost seems some women would
rather date a really attractive woman rather than an unattractive man? I'd
imagine that would feel quite emasculating for some. Do you think that would be
common or is it my mere imagination?
''Feminism encourages women to be
with other women so they can supposedly 'know their own bodies better' as if
they don't already have access to them 24/7'', LOL..
I'm not actually going on a
crusade against it, its just that I admit: yes, after watching enough lesbian
porn and waking up to the fact I was getting no 'action' because I was the
loser who stayed home and watched this **** while at the same time I wasn't
getting any dates twisted with my mind), it just seems that the society has
made a real fetish over it, it's like in your face with all these celebrities
suddenly 'coming out.' with such acts.
Someone said something that
sounded quite ridiculous, that men have more 'competition' for hot women from
other women, lmao.
Even 10 years ago true
bisexuality seemed rare now suddenly 'enlightened' women are just getting in
touch with their sexuality. I don't want to degrade lesbians but it seems more
like not caring about the gender and doing it out of erotic pleasure, like a
kind of mutual masturbation.
Maybe we're not really all bi,
but simply do you have the capacity to gain erotic pleasure from both
genders?...
Lets hear your say in this
matter.
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