Tuesday, July 17, 2012

WHY ARE SO MANY WOMEN SUDDENLY BI-SEXUAL?


We've heard different opinions from people, 'because it's seen as cool and guys like it', two 'because they are more free to be honest about their sexuality...'
The truth may be somewhere in between, I think its definitely is a socio-cultural phenomenon, because like lets say 15 years ago it was quite a stigma to say you were bisexual or a lesbian. Then suddenly, from the early 00s I suddenly heard a lot of talk about threesomes, 'experimenting with the same sex' and things like that. I honestly think a lot of women are kind of encouraged to go that way, it's like we may all have the seed of potential, but it's watered by our environment. I actually think pornography has a lot to do in it because like, at least 30% of internet porn seems to be lesbian(girl on girl). Women are also conditioned to see females as the more 'sexy' or desirable gender because of the male dominated viewpoint of sexuality.

 I think it's true that women's sexuality is fluid but that of men is probably more fluid than they think. The strength of the stigma is so strong, it kind of drowns everything out. If more women than men are bisexual why has bisexuality seemed to be more common in men in history? I don't think social pressures are the reason because if anything male homosexuality has been stigmatized more than female.
For a while I admit that I had a friend who has this lesbian porn addiction but she's kind of getting over that a bit. This may sound ridiculous, but it
almost seems some women would rather date a really attractive woman rather than an unattractive man? I'd imagine that would feel quite emasculating for some. Do you think that would be common or is it my mere imagination?
''Feminism encourages women to be with other women so they can supposedly 'know their own bodies better' as if they don't already have access to them 24/7'', LOL..
I'm not actually going on a crusade against it, its just that I admit: yes, after watching enough lesbian porn and waking up to the fact I was getting no 'action' because I was the loser who stayed home and watched this **** while at the same time I wasn't getting any dates twisted with my mind), it just seems that the society has made a real fetish over it, it's like in your face with all these celebrities suddenly 'coming out.' with such acts.
Someone said something that sounded quite ridiculous, that men have more 'competition' for hot women from other women, lmao.
Even 10 years ago true bisexuality seemed rare now suddenly 'enlightened' women are just getting in touch with their sexuality. I don't want to degrade lesbians but it seems more like not caring about the gender and doing it out of erotic pleasure, like a kind of mutual masturbation.
Maybe we're not really all bi, but simply do you have the capacity to gain erotic pleasure from both genders?... 
Lets hear your say in this matter.

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