WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIEND OR CONFIDANT?

Many at times we may have problems very serious problems that saying it out may bring about stigmatization or making you lose your prestige in the society. Equally there are problems that are so killing that without saying it out may cause a parasitic effect within you, not that you really can’t solve this problem but you just need to tell someone about it for the support and encouragement the person has to render to you.

When you don’t have a best friend in your family talking about your sibling or rather your parents(some people don’t really have a very a strong relationship with their parents or sibling) and you may want to talk to a friend who may end up betraying you by telling someone who would tell another person and another so it goes, and before you know it, it goes like you gave a BBC reporter your problem even your parents or people you don’t want to know about it become aware of it.

Now before you can ascertain the right person to tell your dark secret to, you need to have a cordial relationship with the person in question:

How would you know if you have one?

This is a very important question I must say because some people are just so full of deceit that they can go a long way to deceive you in order to get their ends need, because they don’t care about you all they care about is what you are but I assure you that at the end of this post you should be able to distinguish the kind of friends you have.

How to know what a friend can do to you.

When chatting with your friends, their action or words can easily tell the kind of people they truly are and with these few tips you should be able to tell whom your best friend is:

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HOW TO GET MORE SEX

Guys, Here’s how to get more sex guys, guess what? We found out ways to get you in that woman’s bed more often. Ways that’ll ensure that you get laid more than you ever used to and what’s more? With the woman you love doing it with. First, listen, be attentive and be responsive.

Remember what your mom taught you about how to be a man? The part where you listen carefully and follow the right path? Yes, that part is needed under the sheets.

When you touch your woman, listen to her moans, her response and find out what she wants and how she wants it and most importantly, when she needs it. Be timely and be skillful about it as well. Don’t keep asking questions though. The idea is to carefully listen and keep doing what she wants and not to keep asking her every second “do you like that?” “Am I hitting that spot right?” This bores women faster than being forced to watch a cricket game. You’d be almost making her scream “just do it”. Nobody wants her chatty man on top of her, shut up and do your business. Also, do not focus on the nipples alone or the Clit. Some men have assumed a woman’s nipples are the only sensitive part of her body. This is not true; there are loads of women who don’t even get turned on when men tease their nipples. Yes, so this goes to say that there are other “important” spots that you need to discover as a man. How do you discover? You find out by searching. For instance, the boobs itself turns most women on more than their nipples. The sides are sensitive as well, so pay attention to those.

 Incorporate kissing into the whole act: For most men, when they kiss during foreplay, they just focus on the sex itself and forget about it during and after the act. Here’s something new to learn, when you kiss before, during and after the sex, it guarantees you a next time. Women love kisses, for them it is a bonding moment and it is more performance during sex. So imagine when you give your woman as much as she needs? She’d look forward to the very next time.

 I know of men who are very much sex driven and who have this amazingly great sexual life and who constantly want to add spice in it with their spouses. The problem most times with this group of men is that they do not know where to draw the line between sex and rigorous exercises. Women who are as sex driven as males, don’t even want to go through energy draining and “life threatening” sexual encounters. Some men see some interesting sex position while watching porn and try to incorporate it in their sexual life. That is porn guys, but  this is real life. Women love to enjoy sex. No woman wants to rush to the next chemist to buy aboniki (pain killer) or start looking for a professional masseur or a masseuse just because she made love to you. Have it easy. Don’t try everything you see before you hurt someone.

 When some guys go down, they get so turned on or maybe fascinated by the clitoris that they begin to tweak it or chew it in a bid to desperately turn their partner on. Stop it! It isn’t chewing gum neither is it some sort of game pad where you push the buttons anyhow. Be gentle. It is a woman’s body part, never forget that. Be easy, watch her and listen to her to know if you are doing it right before you continue. She would give you the keys to the kingdom every other time after that if you just know how to do it.

HOW TO KNOW A MAN IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU

There are some few  ways that might help you know a man who is in for the real deal and not just.for fun or flirt .

1. He is interested in your life-If you tell him about how nervous you are concerning the next promotion at work or the next big move in your career and he calls you to check how it is going, asking every step of the way how you are feeling, then he is there for real.

Men who want something real don’t hesitate to know everything going on in your life.

2. He is never too busy to call-face it, nobody is too busy to call someone special. An “I called to say I miss you” call won’t last more than a minute, so when you truly care, you won’t be too busy to call. A man who is never to busy to call you and who calls back when he misses your call or text is one who is serious enough. You know why? Because men know how seriously women take the calls they put through to their man. They know women get angry when a man refuses to acknowledge their calls. So when he calls back to say “I’m so sorry I couldn’t reply your message or call at the time…” Or makes it up to you? Then he just might be for real.

3. He is willing to help- whenever you need to get something done and you discuss it with him, if his immediate/automatic response is “so what are you going to do?” Without him offering to help in any way, then he just is not in it for the long term. A man who is into you and wants to start something serious would try to find out how he can help when you are in a fix. Not ask you without being concerned what you want to do. Men like to be men by helping their women and easing their stress. If he cares and is for real, he would offer to help. As simple as that.

4. He is interested in your career-a man who truly wants to be with you will be concerned about your career and your future plans. If he is serious baout your future then it means he is serious about you.

5. He is proud of you-He takes you out and flaunts you whenever he has the chance. He does not leave you standing by yourself while talking to his friends in a party or an event, rather he stands by you and lets everyone know who you are to him.