The following are some of the steps which you should take to easily deal with all the pains and hurts that you are feeling deep within your heart. While they're certainly not an instant remedy for a broken heart, if you keep them in mind and with the passage of some time, you should be able to feel better.
1.CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS
It is just pretty normal that your emotions after the break up are so intense that you lose control of yourself. There are actually times when you curse the person whom you loved, especially if they were responsible for the break up. Thus, you have to learn how to control your emotions so that you can be sure that you can easily recover from the break up.
It is to be expected that your emotions go out of control for a while. There is nothing wrong with feeling sad, angry, and depressed, etc...The problem comes when you let those emotions take control of your life. If you need to feel sad or cry, then do it; however, force yourself to stop after a few minutes. If you can take control of your emotions, you will be able to get over the break up, easier and faster.
2.LEARN TO ACCEPT
Try to take an “Everything happens for a reason” attitude. You just have to accept the ending of your relationship with your significant other. Besides, God, fate, destiny, whichever you believe in; probably has a better plan for your love life that you don't even know about. It may be hard to believe this now, but if this wasn't your first relationship, then you know that you can find happiness again, because you've already done it at least once. If you don't learn to accept that it is over, you will only keep re-opening the emotional wounds.
3.LET GO AND MOVE ON
Letting go and moving on goes hand in hand. Hence, once you are certain that you have let go of the romantic bond with your significant other, you can move on and start your new better life. After all, breaking up with your significant other is not the end of your world.
Indeed, you can still get rid of the feeling of sadness after the break up even if there is no remedy for a broken heart. You simply have to put into action the aforementioned steps so that you can recover and start a new life. It may take some time, but don't let it ruin your life. Take the good from the relationship, learn from the bad, and move on.
Nice one! Thanks, I'll keep this till I get heart broken then I'll apply it.
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thanks for the observation.
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