Some men just aren’t in tune with their romantic side.
Fortunately, most men can be taught, given the right attitude. Proceed
carefully and don't ever pressure your man into romance. Here are some initial
tips:
The golden rule is to
lead by example.
Remember, you want your man to take the lead, but, on his
terms, not yours. Start by pampering
him. Do what he likes to do best -- even if that is drinking with the chums,
playing a video game, or just watching TV on a Saturday night.
Doing this, a spicy ending to any of these activities
will be much more favorable for him. Afterwards, show him you'd appreciate
similar attention towards you, and eventually he'll get the bigger picture.
Take charge of a great
night out with your man.
Plan an entire night on the town and then let your man
just come along for the ride. Women need to appreciate just how difficult it
can be for the man to always be the one to find creative and fun things to do.
It can be very romantic for the man when his lady takes
charge in this way, finding a new restaurant and activity for them to
enjoy. The man can find this very
exciting and will be open to romance afterwards, once an enjoyable evening has
been spent together.
Turn romance into a
competitive game.
Alternate planning weekly date nights with your man and
plan an activity that will appeal to his competitive nature. Men will often want to take the lead here
because they find great pleasure in outdoing their mate.
Finally, make sure your
man knows how much you appreciate the little things that he does for you.
This can be cooking a great meal when you are tired,
opening the car door for you, treating you to a chocolate heart when you are
feeling blue, any number of thoughtful, little things.
Make a point of mentioning that he does this for you in
front of your friends and watch the envy of the other ladies ooze all over the
place! Your man will take notice and
feel loved! Romantic moments should
quicken with this plan!
simply amazing!
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