3 STATEMENTS EVERY SPOUSE NEEDS TO HEAR.

1. Honey,I love you.
Far too often,as we get caught up in the
hustle and bustle of everyday life,“I love
you” becomes a quick salutation at
the end of phone conversations and text
messages between spouses. How much
more would it mean if you stopped your
spouse from whatever they were doing,
stared into their eyes and said,“I love
you.” It’s easy to take your husband or
wife’s love for granted.Make the extra
effort to express your feelings for them
and let them know they are loved and
appreciated by you.
2. Baby,I need you.
Merriam-Webster defines the word need
as “a situation in which someone or
something must do or have something.”
Think about that for a
second.When you say to your spouse that
you need them, you are declaring that you
must have them! Tell your partner today
that you need and must have him or her…
just like you need air to breathe.
3. Sugar,I want you.
Never let your spouse wonder if you still
desire them. Make it known that you want
every part of who they are – don’t expect
them to guess.Looks can change over the
years,but what’s most important is that
your spouse knows that,no matter what,
you want them in every
way;mentally,emotionally,and
physically.And there you have it.Whether
you’ve been together two years or
twenty,there’s nothing more powerful than
telling your husband or
wife how much you love, need and want
them.Add those words to the lexicon of
your
marriage or relationship without delay. Be
sure to back them up with actions,too!

OVERCOMING SEXUAL DECEPTION. #LADIES

1. Sex is NOT love. Love is not sex.

2. You can have sex and not be in-love, You can be in love and not engage in sex.

3. A man may hate you and still have sex with you. Be wise.
4.Using sex to manipulate a man will
eventually fail.
5. It is self deception to think that giving
him sex will make him love you.
6. True Love will never force you to engage in sex.
7. A man who doesn't love you will not
change his mind because of sex.
8. If he tells you to ‘prove your love’ by
having sex with him. He is only using you.
9. If he is in it for the sex, ‘better sex’ will
take him away from you.
10.Making yourself his ‘sex slave’ is foolish. Love will never shame or degrade you.
If you have made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy this man, now is the time to re-assess your relationship and build it on the right foundation. If he gets married to you because ‘the sex is good’, it will be fatal to your marriage. Let him get married to you because he loves you, honors you, feels a strong emotional, mental and spiritual connection with you and wants you to spendthe rest of his life with you.
                            
SHEILA

FACTS LADIES NEED TO KNOW

Ladies, you can have a pretty face, thick in the waist, and able to give some GRADE A sex, but if you're expecting to get a RING and a trip down the isle based on THAT criteria, be prepared to be legally SINGLE for a looooong time!
Do you know how many women would be MARRIED by now if thats ALL it took???
You're NOT the only DIME out here girl! REAL MEN expect MORE than the above referenced, and REAL WOMEN know this!
So while you hollering what you have to offer, if education, self sufficiency, mother of his kids on PURPOSE material, and CLASS ain't on the menu, HE'LL PASS as far as the "long haul" goes... Better "get your life"...
A REAL LIFE!

.......                           ........ SHEILA........

6 KEYS TO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP.

1-FRIENDSHIP: Try to be your spouse best friend. No matter what happens, be a friend first, and a lover later
2-TRUST: The key element to any
relationship is trust, so before starting this beautiful journey with your spouse, learn to trust in all circumstances.
3-UNDERSTANDING: Try to figure out each other and work out on  your differences. There are going to be many differences, but it’s mutual compromise and sacrifice which makes this relationship beautiful.
4-COMMUNICATION: Try to talk and
convey your message to your spouse. Let your spouse know about how good/bad your day was along with reminding them how you feel for them.
5-HONESTY: Always speak the truth, never lie or hide things in fear that your spouse won’t understand. Give your spouse a chance to understand you.
6-FREEDOM: Give your spouse space and freedom to decide for themselves. Don’t take away the personal time of your spouse.
When you have practiced all of the above, then trust and believe in God and your self and you will see how beautiful your relationship will be...
                                            - Sheila