FOUR THINGS A MAN NOTICES IN YOU AT FIRST SIGHT

It is said that a man decides the type of woman a lady is and if he wants to be with her in the first five minutes (or so) he spends with her.

It wasn’t said what exactly he sees that helps him form his decision but it is likely some or all of these things.

-Your Beauty. Men usually notice a woman’s beauty almost immediately they set their eyes on them, it is one of the first things a man sees.

-Body. Just like the beauty, a man notices a woman’s body shape and features almost immediately he sees her. Most men decide if they like what they see in seconds.

-The Lips. Men unlike women tend to think of a woman they find attractive in a sexual way almost immediately they sight them. Your lips are part of the things that draws his attention when he sees you from afar.

-Intellect. Moving from the physical, a man notices a woman’s smartness almost immediately after she has opened her mouth to speak. The way a conversation is carried or that jokes are reacted to would help him form the opinion of what type of person she is.

Spot your area of deficiency and work on it.

EASY WAYS TO GET TO CLIMAX AS A WOMAN

For most women, reaching orgasm during sex is not exactly an easy thing to do. Some women have never reached orgasm when having sex with their partners and others rarely do.

As much as a lot of women blame themselves for this situation, it is not their problem at all. Studies and books on successful sexual lives have proved that women have less orgasms than men due to a lot of varying reasons, which ranges from the sexual position to the activities done during intercourse by both parties.

This goes to say that as much as men easily reach sexual climax, women aren’t built that way and it is very okay to not reach orgasm every other time. It’s natural so don't be worried.

However most women however are not pleased with this because some of them want to experience the feeling, some need to make their partners know that they are indeed enjoying the sex and it is just simply frustrating for some not to reach orgasm or to ‘come’.

Some of the ways women can easily reach orgasm however includes; Masturbation or sexual position.

Women who are used to masturbating know how to fix the dildo(vibrator) and how to channel them to pleasure themselves. They know how to orgasm with these sexual toys and what to do to get them there.

These type of women already have half their problems solved because next time they have sex with their partners, they can borrow tips from their masturbating sessions and tell their partners where to touch. This would stimulate them and allow them climax.

Another help towards easy climax is the clitoris. Since the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the Vagina and the part that stimulates an easy climax, taking it into consideration might help in your quest on reaching climax easily.

“Let your partner stroke the climax, guide him when he’s doing it so he can know how to do it well and how it would yield results. He could do this while thrusting into you, this would stimulate you and guide you to an easy climax.”

Some sexual positions that you can also try which would make climax happen or boost the chances includes;

1.CAT

The CAT is the coital adjusted technique. Basically this is a face-to-face position, but the man ‘rides much higher’ than he would in the missionary position so that his shoulders and head are about six inches higher up the bed than normal.

What this means is that his penis doesn’t go all the way into the vagina. Instead, the stem or root of it is pulled hard against the clitoris – producing great sensations in that all-important little organ.

The other difference is that instead of taking his weight on his elbows, the man should simply let his bulk slump onto his partner’s upper chest.

2. The free as air position where The man lies down on his back. The woman faces the other way and sits down on his penis. Then, in her own time, she gradually lowers herself so that – with his penis inside her – her back is lying fully outstretched on the front of his body.

The woman can feel genuinely weightless and free-as-air – which is quite a novel sensation. Another bonus is that either partner can touch the clitoris easily. So it’s different and fun – and usually a great time is had by all.

3. The Spoon position Finally, ‘the spoons’.

This is the position where you lie on your side and your man lies curled up round your bottom (like spoons in a drawer) and penetrates you from behind.

Lots of women like this, though not all of them find it easy to orgasm on their sides. But the great advantage here is that either partner can reach round and rub the clitoris. Also, neither of you is having to take the weight of the other.

However, have in mind that there’s no right or wrong position to have sex or reach orgasm. You have to find that which works for you.

THE POWER OF A MAN.

A man has the power to love a woman in a special way that she has never been loved, & yet hurt her with the same intensity.

A man has the power to treat a woman like a queen & then turn around & make her wish she was never born.
A man has the power to make a woman cry with happiness & joy, then turn around & make her cry with hurt & anger.
A man has the power to let a woman feel free & wanted, but also feel disgusted & unworthy.
A man has the power to look a woman in her face & tell her he loves her, but turn around & sleep with her best friend.
A man has the power to make you fall in love with him within days, & hate him within minutes.
During sex a man has the power to make a woman feel like she’s in heaven, & afterwards makes her feel like she was paid for it.
A man has the power to change a woman from having goals, to living out his goals instead of her own.
A man can get you closer to God, while some can get you so close to becoming a demon worshiper *your choice*.
Why is it that men have such power?
They have so much power, because we give it to them. The power of a man wouldn’t mean anything without a woman.
So ladies when times are hard between you & your man & you realize that he treats you bad, remember that he can only do what you allow him to do to you!!!

SEX AND LOVE !!!

1. Sex is NOT love. Love is not sex.
2. You can have sex and not be inlove.You can be in love and not engage in sex.
3. A man may hate you and still have sex
with you. Be wise.
4.Using sex to manipulate a man will
eventually fail.
5. It is self deception to think that giving
him sex will make him love you.
6. True Love will never force you to
engage in sex.
7. A man who doesn't love you will not
change his mind because of sex.
8. If he tells you to ‘prove your love’ by
having sex with him. He is only using you.
9. If he is in it for the sex, ‘better sex’ will
take him away from you.
10.Making yourself his ‘sex slave’ is
foolish. Love will never shame or degrade you. If you have made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy this man, now is the time to re-assess your relationship and build it on the right
foundation. If he gets married to you
because ‘the sex is good’, it will be fatal to your marriage. Let him get married to you because he loves you, honors you, feels a strong emotional, mental and spiritual connection with you and wants you to spendthe rest of his life with you.
                                     - SHEILA